Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Should I apologize/call first?

My boyfriend and I had a fight. We were about to go out for some Chinese food, and I was putting on a pair of brown leather boots. At this point he made the comment that sparked the fight. something like..."I won't go out with/be seen with you until you take off those boots..." I get angry and I'm waiting for him to say just kidding but he assures me that he is dead serious. So...I said that my boots and I are going out without him (still waiting for him to say something nice to make up for it) ...he keeps making comments about it. I yelled at him and told him to get lost until further notice. I feel like a total jerk for getting mad about something so stupid, but at the same time he was a jerk too. I wish I could show a picture of the boots because they are very cute (not cowboy boots) Please everyone let me know what you think of this situation...

Should I apologize/call first?
i mean if you feel that you should apologize then go ahead i mean it is kinda silly to argue over a pair of boots but why is it such a problem to wear the boots while you guys go out
Reply:He was being a jerk when he said that. But you fell into the trap by responding the way that you did. I know that it upset you, but you should have asked what he didn't like about them. As for whether you should call or apologize first, it depends on how soon you want this thing to be over. You can call and let him know that you don't want to fight with him. Sound like you're sorry. Then let him know that it hurt your feelings when he said that because you liked the boots and thought that they looked pretty. Hopefully he'll realize what a jerk he was and apologize to you.
Reply:i mean..i'm a guy..haha..so i would totally call first...and apologize..but i guess..u dont have to be a guy to call first and apologize


^^ i'm not saying that girls should call first..but..i guess its your decision on how bad u guys are mad at eachother.
Reply:Ok you should've asked him to explain why he wasn't going with you in those boots! Sorry but my man and I have been together for over 4years I wish he would say something like that, he'd do what I said and Like it but the key for you is to talk communicate that is the best way!!!!



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